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my boyfriend has no money and I pay for everything, What should I do?

Hello. I’ve been in a relationship for 4.5 years with my boyfriend. I have a better job and make more money than him. Right from the start, he has been borrowing money from me but he still has never paid…

Am I Ready To Date? Quiz

Are you ready to dip your toes into the world of romance and possibly date for the first time? Love is in the air, and building fulfilling relationships can be both exciting and challenging. Whether you’re a teenager navigating the…

How To Ask Out Your Crush: Step-By-Step Guide To Success

Crushing on someone is a roller coaster of emotions. One moment, you’re on cloud nine; the next, you are a bundle of nerves. You’re all set to ask them out, but then … you see them. And the words vanish….

What To Do When Your Relationship Is At Breaking Point?

Do you have a nagging feeling that you and your partner may be on the verge of a breakup? That your relationship seems to be moving like a rudderless ship, while both of you are just going with the flow,…

10 Actionable Steps To Increase Tinder Matches

So you want to learn how to get matches on Tinder. Looking for the love of your life, but you end up getting ghosted? These numbers should help but they don’t: There are over 1.6 billion right swipes every day…

Should I Stay In This Relationship? Quiz

Is your love life like a tangled kite string, tugging you from hope to doubt? Do you wake up wondering, “When to leave a relationship?” or whisper through tear-stained lashes, “Is there hope for my relationship?” Fear not, tangled lovebird,…

11 Surprising Examples Of Flirting That Say Someone’s Into You

What is considered flirting? Kell, a reader from New Jersey, shares, “I’ve been speaking to this guy regularly but I’m not sure where we stand. Are we flirting? Are we friends being playful? It’s so confusing.” Flirting can take on…

13 Genuine Tips To Help You Slide Into Someone’s DMs

Let’s talk about the art of sliding into DMs. Now, I’ve never considered myself a smooth operator in the realm of online dating, but sometimes you stumble upon an opportunity you just can’t ignore. So, picture this: it’s a regular…

Is He Playing Me? Quiz

Have you ever had that feeling when you’re texting a guy, and it’s like you’re playing detective with his emojis, trying to crack the code of what he’s really feeling? In today’s world, meeting new people is a breeze, thanks…

65 Best Instagram Pickup Lines To Start A Conversation

So, it was on a lazy Sunday afternoon that I stumbled upon an intriguing profile during my casual Instagram scroll. Now, I never know what to say when sliding into DMs, but instead of sticking to the usual likes, I…

Should I Breakup With My Girlfriend? Quiz

You and your girlfriend, once inseparable, now find yourselves in a space that feels unfamiliar. The warmth and connection you once shared seem to have faded, leaving you questioning whether this is just a rough patch or a sign of…

What Is A Power Couple? 15 Signs You And Your Partner Are One

Seated across from Emma and Alex during our routine weekend brunch, a captivating dynamic unfolded between them that left me utterly fascinated. In that moment, a friend – as if she could hear my thoughts – said to me, “Emma…

Gut Feeling He’s Cheating But No Proof Quiz

Have you ever found yourself scrolling through messages, anxiously scanning for signs, or questioning your partner’s sudden change in behavior? You’re not alone. Welcome to the “Gut Feeling He’s Cheating No Proof Quiz,” which has been created by a seasoned…

121 Words Of Affirmation For Her That Will Steal Her Heart

“In my experience with my girlfriend, thoughtful words of affirmation for her go a long way more than anything else. Of course, it’s also about following up with actions but a good relationship is not just about buying extravagant gifts…

50 Things To Do As A Single Woman For An Evolved Personality

I have an interesting circle of six girlfriends. We have some commonalities, which could explain why we get along so well. The first is that we, strangely enough, are all single. The second is that we are in what some…

How To Tell If You Love Someone? Quiz

You catch yourself stealing glances, smiling uncontrollably, and feeling a flutter in your stomach whenever that special someone is around. You’re wondering if this is what love feels like or if it’s just infatuation. Does this sound like you? This…

13 Benefits And 5 Struggles Of Marrying Your Best Friend

Marrying your best friend — yay or nay? Opinions are often split down the middle on this. As I stood at the altar, surrounded by the warmth of loved ones and the anticipation of a lifetime ahead, I couldn’t help…

21 Expert-Validated Psychological Signs Someone Likes You

Have you ever noticed someone who couldn’t take his eyes off you on the first date? Or someone who constantly smiled whenever they met you? Or someone who appears nervous or self-conscious when they see you? Well, there’s a sure-shot…

Do I Need Marriage Counseling? Quiz

You and your partner used to be inseparable, sharing laughter, dreams, and countless memories. However, lately, the once-solid foundation of your relationship seems to be crumbling. Perhaps you find yourselves entangled in heated arguments, struggling with a pervasive emotional disconnect,…

Are You Conventionally Attractive? 13 Key Indicators to Look For

Who defines this ‘convention’, though? That’s what I always end up asking myself, and others. This is what my research tells me: ‘Conventionally attractive’ is a term for defining someone’s appearance that is a sum total of physical features. Being…

Do I Have Attachment Issues? Quiz

Do you find it hard to voice your opinions because you’re afraid it might hurt someone’s feelings? Do you constantly question whether people truly like you? All these could be because of the particular style of attachment you have! Attachment…

What Is Fexting, And Why Is It Bad For Your Relationship?

One would not think that the latest phenomenon known as fexting or fighting over text can be attributed to the First Lady of the United States, Jill Biden — but it’s true. According to Jill, she and Joe prefer to…

25 Signs Your Twin Flame Is Communicating With You

Recently, a friend convinced me of the existence of twin flames, a deep connection that seems to transcend the rational. As I delved into this enigmatic world, my inner skeptic realized something unmistakable — that I could communicate with my…

Are We Meant To Be Together? Quiz

Feel like you and your partner are a perfect match but you’re not sure? It’s not always easy to tell. That’s why we’ve brought you the “Are We Meant to Be Together Quiz.” Created by a relationship counselor with a…

19 Powerful Signs of Male Attraction You Need to Know

Is that guy attracted to you? Or are you imagining it? This is one of the most common guessing games, and can even be a disaster for your love life if you guess it wrong. Which is why it is…

Does My EX Still Love Me? Quiz

Picture this – you’re sitting alone, replaying memories of your past relationship like a movie. You’re left in a confused emotional state and you’re not quite sure if your ex still has feelings for you or if it’s time to…

Meaning, Importance, And How To Seek

What is reassurance in a relationship? That is the question that came to my mind when a friend told me about her relationship woes. According to her, her man always leaves her feeling insecure. He told her that her need…

23 Huge Signs A Woman Is Attracted To You

I’ve often yelled at a friend fondly, “HOW are you unable to read the signs a woman is attracted to you? Look at her, she’s clearly throwing hints your way!” My friend’s dating life is filled with attempts at gauging…

Should you move in with your boyfriend? Quiz

Entering the realm of cohabitation is a major move—no pun intended. It’s a decision that can send your thoughts into a whirlwind, and you might find yourself second-guessing everything. But hey, that’s completely normal! It’s not just about sharing space;…

What Is The Role Of A Husband In A Modern Relationship?

In the earlier days, the role of a husband was solely of a provider, while the wife’s role was solely of a nurturer. However, family structures underwent a phenomenal transformation changing millennials’ perceptions of families. In many modern households, there…

Is My Boyfriend Controlling? Quiz

Caring or controlling? It’s easy to mistake one for the other in relationships, but there’s a crucial difference – one makes you feel loved, and the other, scared. Enter the “Is My Boyfriend Controlling? Quiz,” a valuable tool for self-reflection…

What’s Your Chinese Zodiac Animal? Let Your Birth Year Tell Your Personality

As I write this in 2023, it’s the Year of the Rabbit, at least in Chinese culture. If you thought Western astrology was complicated, then you haven’t yet heard of Chinese astrology. It is a beautiful classification system with a…

10 Ways To Attract A Millionaire Man

In the quest for companionship and love, the allure of dating a millionaire remains unique. It’s not just about the allure of wealth but also the lifestyle, sophistication, and experiences that such a relationship can offer. In a world where…

170 Cute Names For Your Girlfriend She’ll Love

Choosing cute names for your girlfriend is not just a sweet gesture, but a meaningful way to express how much you love her. According to a study on cute pet names, “90% of Americans who use nicknames like “beautiful,” “gorgeous,”…

When Should I Propose To My Girlfriend? Quiz

Contemplating when to propose to your girlfriend? It can be an emotional rollercoaster, entirely natural to feel a bit jittery about such a significant move. That’s where our relationship expert comes in. Dhriti Bhavsar, a relationship counselor armed with a…

11 Signs Your Girlfriend Was Sexually Abused In The Past And How To Help Her

Relationships, at the best of times, are challenging affairs to navigate, and past sexual trauma makes them even more difficult. A WHO report states that 1 in 3 women are subjected to physical or sexual violence globally. Even more worrying…

I like two guys. How do I choose? Quiz

Caught in the delightful dilemma of liking two guys? It happens to the best of us. One makes your heart do a happy dance, while maybe the other sparks a little something more… intriguing. Welcome to the ‘I Like Two…

The Must-Have Breakup Apps For Your Phone

There are few who have not been through a broken heart. Some people seem to breeze through a breakup without any of the attendant pain, but not everyone can cope on their own. Many of us need help. So, let…

Are Narcissists Capable Of Love?

Are narcissists capable of love? This is a question that weighs on the minds of a lot of people who have endured the narcissistic love patterns of idealization, devaluation, discarding, and hoovering. If you’re wrestling with it too, know that…

Meaning, Signs, And Ways To Deal

As I sit down to write about monkey branching, a term that has made waves in the world of relationships and dating, I can’t help but recall personal experiences and those of friends who’ve navigated the complex terrain of love…

What Is My Type Of Guy? Quiz

If your idea of a perfect Saturday night involves snuggling up on the couch and immersing yourself in the latest true crime documentary, then The Kind and Considerate Man is your ideal match. On the flip side, if you’re inclined…

Dumpers Remorse: Meaning, Signs, and Stages

Breaking up with someone can be a difficult and emotionally charged experience, but what about the often-overlooked emotional rollercoaster experienced by the one who initiates the breakup? Dumpers remorse, a term gaining recognition in the realm of relationship psychology, delves…

How To Let Someone Down Easy With Kindness And Grace — 13 Tips

Have you ever wanted to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and felt guilty about it? Do you wish to end your relationship with your SO but make sure you can still be on talking terms later? Do you…

101 Meaningful Words Of Affirmation For Him That Actually Work

Quite honestly, I thought the whole idea of daily affirmations was pure hogwash. That was until I met my current partner. I never thought of using words of affirmation for him but this amazing, well-educated man believes in the power…

When Will He Propose ? Quiz

Are you eagerly eyeing your friends’ sparkly new diamond rings and wondering when your turn will come to join the wives club? Look no further – the “When Will He Propose Quiz” is here to demystify the situation and offer…

How To Show Respect In A Relationship — 9 Ways

R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The great singer Aretha Franklin sang about it. Tomes have been written about it. Respect as a concept is essential to any successful relationship, platonic or otherwise. But what does showing respect mean? Some consider it to imply admiration….

11 Prominent Male Narcissist Traits to Watch For

A friend recently asked me if I thought her toxic ex had male narcissist traits. I told her that being narcissistic is different from being diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and there’s no way to know unless he gets…

Am I Being Gaslighted? Quiz

Do you ever find yourself questioning your own sanity because of your partner? Does it feel like somehow you’re always wrong and they never make mistakes? Well, this might be a sign you’re a victim of gaslighting. That’s why we…

Should I Breakup With My Boyfriend? Quiz

Relationships are tricky, and figuring out if it’s time to part ways with your boyfriend can be even trickier. That’s why we’re introducing the “Should I Break Up with My Boyfriend Quiz,” created by Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a…

41 Funny Wedding Toasts That’ll Leave Everyone Laughing

I was recently chosen to give a toast at my best friend’s wedding. Since she’s all for fun and games, her instructions were clear: “No crying; only funny wedding toasts at my wedding!” I did my research. And here I…

50 Incredible Responses To The “Dating Me Is Like” Hinge Prompt

Are you one of those who go straight to stalking their potential match on social media as soon as they win the swiping game on a dating app? Let’s accept it, waiting to break the ice on the first date…

Painful Message To A Cheating Boyfriend: 50 Brilliant Ideas

Being cheated on by a romantic partner is one of the most devastating experiences anyone can go through. The subsequent feelings of hurt, humiliation, sorrow, anger, and disbelief can be overwhelming. To work through these emotions, it can help to…

What Is My Type Of Girl? Quiz

Just as no two snowflakes are the same, no two women are identical! So, how do you know who the ideal girl for you is? Fortunately, Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist armed with a master’s degree in psychology, has created this…

The Pitfalls Of Nice Guy Syndrome: How It Affects Relationships

Have you ever found yourself bending over backward to please others, only to feel like you’re constantly stuck in the friend zone? Do you ever wonder why being the ‘nice guy’ doesn’t always lead to the happy, fulfilling relationships you’ve…

9 Best Trans Dating Apps And Sites: Top Expert Picks

Finding dates or romantic connections has always been a bit challenging for transgender people. Luckily, the advances in technology simplified the way we find love nowadays, and the advent of trans dating sites has had a great impact on the…

13 Heartbreaking Signs You Are Wasting Your Time Trying To Get Your Ex Back

Love is never easy. Even more difficult are break ups. They bring in their wake a whirlwind of emotions. When you finally decide to call it off, it leaves you desperate to turn back the clock and rekindle what you…

Is My Partner Cheating On Me? Quiz

Have you observed a sudden shift in your partner’s behavior? Perhaps you’ve noticed them becoming more guarded with their phone, taking extra precautions to keep it locked. If a lingering sense of unease has led you to ponder, “Is my…

Why Does My Girlfriend Hit Me? Expert Shares 11 Possible Reasons And Ways To Cope

“Why does my girlfriend hit me?” — Men hesitate to confess this personal crisis. A study says, “Domestic violence against men covers a broad range of violent acts such as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or financial abuse.” It’s…

Navigating The Complexities Of Consent In Modern Relationships

Now more than ever, you want to be sure that you and your partner consent to literally every single thing that you do in your relationship. To some people, consent may seem like an afterthought or easy to take for…

The Key to Trust and Respect in Relationships

Trust and respect are fundamental pillars in any healthy relationship. Without these, you cannot hope to build a wholesome, lasting connection with another person. Irrespective of how long you’ve been together, making a conscious effort to nurture these two elements…

How Does A Narcissist React When They Can’t Control You?

While talking about narcissism in his bestselling book The Art of Loving, psychoanalyst Erich Fromm said, “The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism.” And he was right. Narcissism can, in many cases prevent…

100 Best Hinge Conversation Starters To Get You To The Talking Stage

Looking to level up your dating game and avoid the abyss of ghosting? Dive into this list of 100 best Hinge conversation starters to get you to the talking stage! Whether you’re wondering how to start a conversation on Hinge,…

How To Know If A Girl Likes You

Interested in someone special but feeling hesitant about taking the first step? We don’t blame you for being worried about the possibility of rejection. That is where we come in! Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a masters degree and specialisation…

Am I Overthinking Or Is He Losing Interest? 18 Signs To Help You Identify

“Am I overthinking or is he losing interest?” “Is he being distant or am I overthinking the situation?” If these questions are weighing on your mind, chances are you’re still not confident that the guy you’re with is into you…

Do I love him quiz

Love is like a puzzle with many pieces, especially when it comes to figuring out our feelings for someone special. Have you ever asked yourself, “Do I really love him, or am I just in love with the idea of…

Pros And Cons, And How To Make It Work

In the ever-evolving world of love and relationships, age is now a bridge, not a barrier. Marrying an older woman is a growing trend, which is exemplified by celebrity couples like Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade, Eva Mendes and Ryan…

6 Ways It Does And 5 Ways To Manage It

“I never should have told my partner that. They’re probably judging me for it, aren’t they? I wonder what they think about me. Can’t be anything positive. I don’t know why this person loves me in the first place. Wait,…

How to Start A Conversation With Your Crush – Pro Tips for Every Situation

Starting a conversation with your crush can feel like a daunting task. You may feel awkward, be unsure of what to say, or fear making things weird. But don’t worry, with the right approach and a little confidence, you can…

Is My Husband A Narcissist ?

Your husband is supposed to be your biggest supporter and the one that you can count on to have your best interest at heart. However, if you’re married to a narcissist, you might experience the exact opposite. Are you made…

My Girlfriend Is Pregnant — What Should I Do And How?

Last year, my brother sent me an urgent text. I immediately called him and his first words were, “My girlfriend is pregnant, what should I do and how do I do it?” Clearly, for him, news of this unplanned pregnancy…

DOES MY CRUSH LIKE ME?

Embarking on the journey of romantic attraction is both thrilling and perplexing, especially when trying to figure out if your crush feels the same way. You aren’t the first person to wonder if your crush likes you back. Since a…

Is Flirting Cheating? 9 Reasons It Is And 7 Ways It Can Harm Your Relationship

In my relationships, the boundaries regarding interacting with the opposite sex have always been a source of heartache and confusion. Even after we set boundaries, we still end up hurting each other once in a while. I’ve learned that setting…

20 Undeniable Signs Your Gym Crush Likes You

In today’s crazy, fast-paced life, there’s no shame in finding your happiness wherever you find it. What with extra-long work hours or maddening study schedules, the only me-time you may have is at the gym. And if you are single,…